North Dakota Marriage Laws
Written and edited for accuracy by the North Dakota marriage law researchers at the Universal Life Church on
North Dakota, a midwestern state known for its Great Plains and rugged Badlands, can also present couples looking to get married inside its borders with more than a few bumps in the road if not properly planned. So whether you are the bride, the groom, or the officiating minister, please take a moment to read through these marriage law detailed guide. Each section has been compiled alongside relevant legal codes and then spelled out in plain English, so that your time in the so-called Peace Garden State will live up to the moniker, and produce a marriage that is legal and binding.
Requirements for the Couple
- Min. Age of Couple:
- Age 18 or Age 16 with Guardian Consent
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Min. Distance of Kin Allowed:
- Second Cousins
- Marriage Equality:
- Yes
The state of North Dakota will only recognize the union of two unmarried individuals 18 years and older, except for those who are at least 16 and have the written consent of their parents or legal guardians. Same-sex couples, whether residents of the state or not, are also allowed to marry, in keeping with recent changes to federal laws.
All marriages deemed incestuous – between siblings, grandparents and grandchildren, uncles and nieces, aunts and nephews and first cousins, whether through half or whole blood, or even illegitimate children and relatives – will be considered void in the state.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-02. Lawful age for marriage.
Any unmarried person of the age of eighteen years or more, and not otherwise disqualified, is capable of consenting to and consummating a marriage. If a person is sixteen to eighteen years of age, a marriage license may not be issued without the consent of the parents or guardian, if there are any. A marriage license may not be issued to any person below the age of sixteen, notwithstanding the consent of the parents or guardian of said person.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-03. Void marriages.
The following marriages are incestuous and void:
Marriage between parents and children, including grandparents and grandchildren of every degree.
Marriage between brothers and sisters of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between uncles and nieces of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between aunts and nephews of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between first cousins of the half as well as the whole blood.
This section applies to illegitimate as well as legitimate children and relatives.
Marriage License Requirements
- Min. Age of Witnesses:
- None
- Couple's Consent Required:
- Yes
- Pronouncement Required:
- Yes
Couples looking to secure a marriage license in North Dakota must both present themselves before a recorder in the county where either they or one of their parents live. Non-residents must purchase licenses in the county in which they plan to wed.
The recorder will ask both individuals to fill in sworn affidavits stating their age (provable by government issued photo ID) and whether or not either have been previously married, providing relevant divorce decrees if that is the case. Social security numbers must be produced and eventual surnames decide upon before any license is issued. Fines may be applied to any individual who knowingly provides false information.
A marriage license in North Dakota costs $65 – $35 of which will go toward aiding victims of domestic violence. Marriages performed at the court during regular courthouse hours will run the couple an extra $30.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-17. Application for license.
- When application is made to a recorder, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official, for a marriage license, the recorder, or designated official, shall inquire of the applicant concerning the legality of the contemplated marriage. The recorder, or designated official, may examine other witnesses. The facts concerning the legality of the marriage may be submitted to the recorder, or designated official, by affidavit. The recorder, or designated official, also shall require each applicant to submit the following facts upon blanks provided by the county, together with documentary evidence of age:
a. An affidavit by each of the applicants showing that each is over the age of eighteen years. In addition, each applicant shall exhibit to the recorder, or designated official, a birth certificate or other satisfactory evidence of age. If either applicant is under the age of eighteen years, the recorder, or designated official, shall require the written consent of:
(1) Either parent of the minor applicant, if the parents are living together;
(2) The parent having the legal custody of the minor applicant, if the parents are not living together;
(3) The surviving parent, if one of the parents of the minor applicant is deceased; or
(4) The guardian, or person under whose care and government the minor applicant is, if both parents of the minor applicant are deceased, or if a person other than a parent has legal and actual custody of the minor applicant.
b. An affidavit showing whether either or both of the parties have been divorced. If a decree of divorce has been granted to either or both of the parties, a certified copy of the decree must be filed with the application. A license shall not be issued if it contravenes any provisions of the divorce decree.
All affidavits must be subscribed and sworn to before a person authorized to administer oaths. The recorder, or designated official, shall retain on file all papers and records pertaining to all marriage licenses. Anyone knowingly swearing falsely to the statements contained in any affidavit mentioned in this section is subject to the penalty provided in section 14-03-28.
Each application for a marriage license must also contain a statement regarding surname options which is consistent with section 14-03-20.1.
Each application for a marriage license must contain the social security number of each applicant.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-10. Marriage may not be solemnized without license.
A person may not solemnize any marriage until the parties to the marriage produce a license regularly issued not more than sixty days before the date of the marriage by:
- A recorder serving the county in which either of the contracting parties resides or is temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a
different official;
A recorder serving the county in which a parent of either of the parties resides or is temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official; or
A recorder serving the county in which the marriage is to be solemnized, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official.
For the purpose of obtaining a marriage license, a member of the armed forces of the United States stationed within the state of North Dakota is deemed to reside in the county in which that person is stationed.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-22. Marriage license fee – Supplemental fee – Fee for marriage ceremony – Duties of officers.
For the issuance and filing of a marriage license, the recorder, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official, shall collect a fee of up to thirty dollars from the party applying for the license.
In addition to the license fee provided for in subsection 1, the recorder, or designated official, shall collect from the applicant a supplemental fee of thirty-five dollars for aid to victims of domestic violence through the domestic violence prevention fund in accordance with chapter 14-07.1.
For performing a marriage ceremony during regular courthouse hours, the recorder, or designated official, shall collect a fee of thirty dollars which is to be retained by the county. If the marriage ceremony is performed at a time other than during regular courthouse hours, the recorder, or designated official, may collect and retain a fee in an amount to be determined by the recorder, or designated official.
Except as provided in this section, all collected fees must be deposited monthly with the county treasurer. The county treasurer shall forward the amount represented by supplemental fees to the state treasurer by the fifteenth of each month for crediting to the domestic violence prevention fund.
The recorder, or designated official, shall prepare a copy of the license and certificate and transmit them to the registrar of vital statistics who shall record them in a book of records kept in the registrar's office for that purpose. The registrar shall index the records and upon request shall issue certified copies of the recorded license and certificate for a one dollar fee. The registrar shall keep an accurate account of these fees and shall turn them over to the state treasurer by the fifteenth of each month for crediting to the general fund.
Marriage License Facts
- ULC-Officiated Ceremony Type:
- Religious
- Mandatory Waiting Period:
- None
- License Valid For:
- 60 Days
- License Must Be Submitted:
- Within 5 Days of Ceremony
Marriage licenses issued in North Dakota will be valid for a period of 60 days, and only in the county in which they were issued, except in the case where the applicants are residents applying in their home county. Active members of the armed forces will be deemed to be residents of the county in which they are stationed.
The original copy of the license and marriage certificate must be returned to the same official who issued it within five days of the solemnized marriage.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-10. Marriage may not be solemnized without license.
A person may not solemnize any marriage until the parties to the marriage produce a
license regularly issued not more than sixty days before the date of the marriage by:
- A recorder serving the county in which either of the contracting parties resides or is
temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a
different official;
- A recorder serving the county in which a parent of either of the parties resides or is
temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official; or
- A recorder serving the county in which the marriage is to be solemnized, unless the
board of county commissioners designates a different official.
For the purpose of obtaining a marriage license, a member of the armed forces of the United States stationed within the state of North Dakota is deemed to reside in the county in which that person is stationed.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-21. Return of license and certificate – Duplicate delivered to persons married – Records kept – Penalty.
When a person authorized by law solemnizes a marriage, that person shall fill out and sign the certificate following the license in duplicate, giving the person's official title, or if a minister of the gospel or priest, the ecclesiastical body with which the minister or priest is connected. The original copy of the certificate and license must be returned to the official who issued the license within five days after the date of the solemnization of the marriage and the duplicate copy must be immediately delivered to the persons married. The official shall file the original copy and retain it as an official record. Any person who willfully neglects to make such return within the time required is subject to the penalty provided in section 14-03-28.
Requirements for the Minister
- Min. Age of Minister:
- Age 18
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Document(s) Required:
- Varies by County
- Online Ordination Recognized:
- Yes
- Relevant Office of Registration:
- Recorder
- Latest Document(s) Submission Date Allowed:
- After the Ceremony
- Minister I.D. # Issued:
- No
Judges, recorders, ordained ministers of recognized denominations and all individuals authorized by the rituals of any religious persuasion may solemnize weddings in the state of North Dakota provided they are at least 18 years old.
Keep in mind that ministers ordained online by the Universal Life Church are considered religious actors, and that their place of residence, stated gender and personal beliefs alone should have no bearing on whether North Dakota deems them legitimate officiants, provided they can produce the necessary documentation, which in this case may vary from county to county.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-09. Who may solemnize marriages.
Marriages may be solemnized at any location within the state by:
All judges of courts of record;
Municipal judges;
Recorders, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official;
Ordained ministers of the gospel, priests, and clergy, authorized by recognized
denominations; and
- By any individual authorized by the rituals and practices of any religious persuasion
Wedding Ceremony Requirements
- Marriage By Proxy Allowed:
- No
- Minister Required to be Present:
- Yes
Couples getting married in North Dakota are free to plan their ceremony as they see fit, in line with their common spiritual needs, so long as both parties are present and married before an authorized officiant and at least two witnesses. Both will have to formally consent to taking the other as husband or wife at some point in the ceremony, which the minister will then have to pronounce before all present.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-20. License and certificate.
The marriage license and certificate of the person solemnizing the marriage must be upon one blank form in duplicate consisting of two pages with a perforated seam to make it readily detachable. The form must be substantially as follows:
MARRIAGE LICENSE
State of North Dakota )
) ss.
County of _________ )
To any person authorized by law to perform the marriage ceremony: You may join in marriage __________ of ___________, aged _____ who has ______ been divorced, and ___________ of __________, aged _____ who has ______ been divorced. You shall return this license and your certificate to my office within five days.
Dated _________, ______.
(Seal)
Recorder/Designated Official
CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE
I certify that the persons named in the foregoing license, _________ and
_________, whose names after marriage are ___________ and __________, respectively, were joined in marriage by me at ___________, county of __________, State of North Dakota, on __________, _____.
In the presence of
___________________________ ) ___________________________
___________________________ ) ___________________________
Witnesses
Every marriage license must contain the full name of each party before the marriage. Every certificate of marriage must contain the full name of each party before and after the marriage and be signed by two witnesses to the marriage in addition to the signature of the person who solemnized the marriage.
Final Steps
- Officiant's Title on Marriage License:
- Minister
- Church/Ordaining Body:
- Universal Life Church Ministries
- Address of Church:
- Minister's Home Address
Once the wedding ceremony is completed, the officiating minister must immediately fill out and sign both copies of the marriage license, providing their official title, the ecclesiastical body with which they are connected (in this case the Universal Life Church), and their home address. The duplicate will be given to the couple, while the original copy of the certificate and license must be returned to the official who issued the license within five days. Any minister who willfully neglects to do so will be fined.
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