Hawaii Marriage Laws

Written and edited for accuracy by the Hawaii marriage law researchers at the Universal Life Church on

Hawaii has some rather unique laws governing marriage and performing marriages. Here we will lay out the full process from start to finish. Our guide covers the steps the couple must take, how the officiating minister needs to register with the state, and how to handle the marriage license to ensure the union is legally binding.

Requirements for the Couple

Min. Age of Couple:
Age 19 or Age 15 with Guardian Consent
Residency:
Not Required
Min. Distance of Kin Allowed:
First Cousins
Marriage Equality:
Yes

In Hawaii, only adults 19 years of age or older can legally marry. There are some exceptions, however. An 18-year-old can get married as long as they have parental consent, and younger minors can petition a court for “special circumstances” to wed. These would be determined on a case by case basis.

Hawaii has no residency requirement for either party of the couple, meaning they can live in Hawaii, a different U.S. state, or even a different country.

Like all U.S. states, Hawaii honors marriage equality so same-sex couples can wed. Unlike most other states, Hawaii had this policy in place by 2013.

Marriage License Requirements

Who Picks Up License:
The Couple
Where License is Valid:
County of Issuance
Marriage License Pick-Up:
In Person Only
Cost of License:
Varies by County
Accepted I.D. Types:
Standard Government Issued ID
Proof of Divorce Required (If Applicable):
Yes
Blood Test Required:
No

The couple is responsible for picking up the marriage license in person from the clerk in the county where the ceremony will take place. Ministers need to know the exact office as they may be required to submit ministerial documentation directly to the county office in addition to the online registration with the state Department of Health.

The application will cost $60 in addition to a filing fee, and the couple will always need to present some form of official government-issued identification, and proof of divorce from a previous marriage if applicable.

No state requires blood tests from the couple in order to obtain the marriage license.

Marriage License Facts

ULC-Officiated Ceremony Type:
Religious
Mandatory Waiting Period:
None
License Valid For:
30 Days
License Must Be Submitted:
By Expiration

The marriage license obtained must be good for a religious ceremony solemnized by a minister, and not just for a civil ceremony officiated by a celebrant or justice of the peace. This is the case even if none of the participants is religious, and even if no mention is made of faith or an appeal to deities during the ceremony. ULC ministers perform legally binding weddings by way of their ordination, so by definition all would be considered “religious” actors.

In some good news, there is not a waiting period between when the license is obtained and when the marriage ceremony can take place. This means that in theory, it’s possible for a couple to go from engaged to married on the same day!

A Hawaii marriage license is good for 30 days after issuance, which just means the wedding must take place sometime within that roughly 1 month window. It also must be submitted back to the office that issued it before it expires.

Requirements for the Minister

Min. Age of Minister:
Age 18
Residency:
Not Required
Document(s) Required:
State Dept. of Health Registration Certificate
Online Ordination Recognized:
Yes
Relevant Office of Registration:
State Dept. of Health Website
Latest Document(s) Submission Date Allowed:
Before the Ceremony
Minister I.D. # Issued:
Yes

Ministers officiating weddings in Hawaii must be at least 18 years of age, which is the same age requirement to get ordained by the Universal Life Church. Beyond that, it doesn’t matter where the minister lives, what they believe, or their gender.

The first thing the minister should do is visit the Hawaii State Department of Health website to begin the registration process to officiate weddings. This involves two parts and along the way the state will assign an I.D. number to the minister. It’s imperative that this number is saved as it will be needed later in the registration process, and possibly again on the marriage license itself.

There will be a small filing fee for the minister to register on the website, and you will need the following address of the ULC Headquarters when completing this process:

Universal Life Church Ministries
2720 1st Ave S
Seattle, WA 98134

In addition to registering with the state on the Department of Health website, the minister needs to contact the exact same office that issued the marriage license to ask if they want physical ministerial documentation in order to perform the ceremony. The answer to that question can vary from office to office. The ULC generally recommends that ministers have their ordination certificate on-hand, though some clerks may not require any documentation.

If documentation is required, it’s best to submit it with the completed marriage license after the wedding has taken place.

Wedding Ceremony Requirements

Marriage By Proxy Allowed:
No
Minister Required to be Present:
Yes
Number of Witnesses Required:
None
Min. Age of Witnesses:
N/A
Couple's Consent Required:
Yes
Pronouncement Required:
Yes

It’s very important that all legally relevant parties be physically present for the ceremony. This would be the officiating minister and both parties of the couple, as Hawaii does not allow for marriage by proxy. No witnesses are required.

The contents and flow of the ceremony can be entirely customized to the couple’s wishes. However, while exact wording doesn’t matter, the couple must give some form of consent to marry and the officiating minister must pronounce them as such. This would be the “I do” and “I now pronounce you…” parts of the wedding we are all rather familiar with.

Final Steps

Officiant's Title on Marriage License:
Minister
Church/Ordaining Body:
Universal Life Church Ministries
Address of Church:
2720 1st Ave S Seattle, WA 98134

Once the wedding is over, there are only a few steps left to ensure that it is legally binding.

There is a section of the marriage license that the officiating minister must fill out. If it asks for a title, you should put “minister,” and for the name of the church or ordaining body, put “Universal Life Church Ministries.” If the license asks for the address of the minister’s church, it should be as follows:

Universal Life Church Ministries
2720 1st Ave S
Seattle, WA 98145

Be sure that the license is filled out completely – and correctly – by all the parties involved. It’s possible that the minister will also need to provide their I.D. number that was issued during their online registration with the state Department of Health. Take care to not make any errors, as doing so could result in the couple needing to purchase a new license.

In Hawaii, the completed marriage license needs to be submitted back to the office where it was obtained within 30 days of issue. This is typically done by the minister, though the couple can perform the task as well. Officiants should take note that any failure to return the license that can be attributed to negligence or malice on the part of the wedding minister is considered a crime.

ULC ministers do not record or share with church headquarters any information about weddings they perform, or plan to perform. That said, Hawaii highly recommends that personal records be kept, particularly if a contract was involved or any reimbursement for services rendered.

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