Connecticut Marriage Laws
Written and edited for accuracy by the Connecticut marriage law researchers at the Universal Life Church on
Connecticut has their own unique set of laws that govern marriages. We have collected all of the answers to the top questions about getting married and officiating weddings in Connecticut, and created a concise guide with everything that you need to know.
Requirements for the Minister
- Min. Age of Minister:
- Age 18
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Document(s) Required:
- Varies by County
- Online Ordination Recognized:
- Yes
- Relevant Office of Registration:
- Town Clerk
- Latest Document(s) Submission Date Allowed:
- After Ceremony
- Minister I.D. # Issued:
- No
The law in Connecticut holds that someone cannot be ordained for the sole purpose of performing a wedding. As such, after getting ordained online, ULC ministers are urged to order a Letter of Good Standing and select "Connecticut" from the drop-down menu of location options. This letter acknowledges the law and expresses compliance with it. More importantly, a minister must also perform at least one ministerial act prior to the wedding. This can include meeting with others for study or discussion of religious topics. We highly recommend keeping minutes of who attended this meeting and what was discussed. Ministers that have done this have not had any trouble having their weddings legally recognized.
Ministers officiating weddings in Connecticut must be at least 18 years old. There are no residency requirements for ministers in Connecticut.
Conn. Gen. Stat. Sec. 46b-22. (Formerly Sec. 46-3). Who may join persons in marriage. Penalty for unauthorized performance. (a) Persons authorized to solemnize marriages in this state include (1) all judges and retired judges, either elected or appointed, including federal judges and judges of other states who may legally join persons in marriage in their jurisdictions, (2) family support magistrates, family support referees, state referees and justices of the peace who are appointed in Connecticut, and (3) all ordained or licensed members of the clergy, belonging to this state or any other state. All marriages solemnized according to the forms and usages of any religious denomination in this state, including marriages witnessed by a duly constituted Spiritual Assembly of the Baha’is, are valid. All marriages attempted to be celebrated by any other person are void.
Wedding Ceremony Requirements
- Marriage By Proxy Allowed:
- No
- Minister Required to be Present:
- Yes
- Number of Witnesses Required:
- None
- Min. Age of Witnesses:
- Not Applicable
- Couple's Consent Required:
- Yes
- Pronouncement Required:
- Yes
In Connecticut the couple and the minister must all be physically present together for the wedding ceremony. There is no marriage by proxy in Connecticut. Three people are all that is required for a legally binding ceremony because, by law, no witnesses are required.
The ceremony script can be totally customized to the needs and desires of the couple. There are only two legally required portions. These are the verbal confirmation that the couple gives, usually known as the “I do’s”, and the minister’s pronouncement that the couple is now wed.
Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-24. (Formerly Sec. 46-5a). License. Period of validity. Penalty for solemnization without license. Validity of marriage ceremony.
(d) Except as otherwise provided in this chapter, in order to be valid in this state, a marriage ceremony shall be conducted by and in the physical presence of a person who is authorized to solemnize marriages.
Marriage License Requirements
- Who Picks Up License:
- The Couple
- Where License is Valid:
- Town of Issuance
- Marriage License Pick-Up:
- In Person Only
- Cost of License:
- $50.00
- Accepted I.D. Types:
- Photo ID
- Proof of Divorce Required (If Applicable):
- No
- Blood Test Required:
- No
The couple must go in person to the Town Clerk to pick up the marriage license with a valid form of photo identification. They need to be sure to get the license at the Town Clerk’s office where the wedding will physically take place. Connecticut marriage licenses only have authority in the town where they are issued.
The cost of the license is $50 and will be collected at the time of the application. There is no blood test, or proof of divorce (if applicable) required in Connecticut.
Conn. Gen. Stat. § 7-73 Fees for marriage license, burial or removal, transit and burial permit. Marriage license surcharge.
(a) To any person performing the duties required by the provisions of the general statutes relating to registration of marriages, deaths and fetal deaths, the following fees shall be allowed: (1) For the license to marry, fifteen dollars; and (2) for issuing each burial or removal, transit and burial permit, five dollars.
(b) A thirty-five-dollar surcharge shall be paid to the registrar for each license to marry in addition to the fee for such license established pursuant to subsection (a) of this section...
Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-24. (Formerly Sec. 46-5a). License. Period of validity. Penalty for solemnization without license. Validity of marriage ceremony.
(a) Except as provided in section 46b-28a, no persons may be joined in marriage in this state until both have complied with the provisions of this section, sections 46b-20a, 46b-25 and 46b-29 to 46b-33, inclusive, and have been issued a license by the registrar for the town in which the marriage is to be celebrated, which license shall bear the certification of the registrar that the persons named therein have complied with the provisions of said sections.
Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-25. (Formerly Sec. 46-5b). Application for license. No license may be issued by the registrar until both persons have appeared before the registrar and made application for a license. The registrar shall issue a license to any two persons eligible to marry under this chapter. The license shall be completed in its entirety, dated, signed and sworn to by each applicant and shall state each applicant's name, age, race, birthplace, residence, whether single, widowed or divorced and whether under the supervision or control of a conservator or guardian. The Social Security numbers of both persons shall be recorded in the “administrative purposes” section of the license. If the license is signed and sworn to by the applicants on different dates, the later date shall be deemed the date of application.
Marriage License Facts
- ULC-Officiated Ceremony Type:
- Religious
- Mandatory Waiting Period:
- None
- License Valid For:
- 65 Days
- License Must Be Submitted:
- By First Week of Month Following Ceremony
The couple should be sure to obtain a marriage license for a religious ceremony rather than a civil one, if they are asked. The authority of a Universal Life Church minister is to perform a “religious” ceremony regardless of any religious affiliation or lack thereof.
There is no waiting period from when the couple applies and when they are able to use the marriage license. So they can technically do everything on the very same day!
The license is valid for up to 65 days if the couple would like to plan ahead. Once the ceremony is performed the license must be returned to the Town Clerk’s office before or within the first week of the month following the marriage. This means the window for return can vary dramatically depending on what day of the month your marriage takes place. It can be as little as 7 days later, or as much as 38 days later, so be sure to figure this out ahead of time.
Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-24. (Formerly Sec. 46-5a). License. Period of validity. Penalty for solemnization without license. Validity of marriage ceremony.
(b) Such license, when certified by the registrar, is sufficient authority for any person authorized to perform a marriage ceremony in this state to join such persons in marriage, provided the ceremony is performed within a period of not more than sixty-five days after the date of application.
Conn. Gen. Stat. Sec. 46b-34. (Formerly Sec. 46-7). Marriage certificate. Affidavit in lieu of certificate.
(a) Each person who joins any person in marriage shall certify upon the license certificate the fact, time and place of the marriage, and return it to the registrar of the town where the marriage took place, before or during the first week of the month following the marriage. Any person who fails to do so shall be fined not more than ten dollars.
(b) If any person fails to return the certificate to the registrar, as required under subsection (a) of this section, the persons joined in marriage may provide the registrar with a notarized affidavit attesting to the fact that they were joined in marriage and stating the date and place of the marriage. Upon the recording of such affidavit by the registrar, the marriage of the affiants shall be deemed to be valid as of the date of the marriage stated in the affidavit.
Requirements for the Couple
- Min. Age of Couple:
- Age 18
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Min. Distance of Kin Allowed:
- First Cousins
- Marriage Equality:
- Yes
There are no residency requirements for marriage license applicants in Connecticut. Out of state couples, or even couples from other countries are welcome to hold a destination wedding in Connecticut.
Applicants must be age 18.
Connecticut is a state that recognizes marriage equality and same-sex couples are able to legally wed.
Conn. Gen. Stat. Sec. 46b-20a. Eligibility to marry. Issuance of license to minor who is sixteen or seventeen, when permitted.
(a) A person is eligible to marry if such person is:
(1) Not a party to another marriage, or a relationship that provides substantially the same rights, benefits and responsibilities as a marriage, entered into in this state or another state or jurisdiction, unless the parties to the marriage will be the same as the parties to such other relationship;
(2) Except as provided in subsection (b) of this section, at least eighteen years of age;
(3) Except as provided in section 46b-29, not under the supervision or control of a conservator; and
(4) Not prohibited from entering into a marriage pursuant to section 46b-21.
(b) A license may be issued to a minor who is at least sixteen years of age but under eighteen years of age with the approval of the Probate Court as provided in this subsection. A parent or guardian of a minor may, on behalf of the minor, petition the Probate Court for the district in which the minor resides seeking approval for the issuance of a license to such minor. The court shall schedule a hearing on the petition and give notice to the minor, the minor's parents or guardians and to the other party to the intended marriage. The minor and the petitioning parent or guardian shall be present at such hearing. The court may, in its discretion, require the other party to the intended marriage to be present at such hearing. After a hearing on the petition, the court may approve the issuance of a license to the minor if the court finds that: (1) The petitioning parent or guardian consents to the marriage; (2) the minor consents to the marriage and such consent is based upon an understanding of the nature and consequences of marriage; (3) the minor has sufficient capacity to make such a decision; (4) the minor's decision to marry is made voluntarily and free from coercion; and (5) the marriage would not be detrimental to the minor.
Conn. Gen. Stat. Sec. 46b-21. (Formerly Sec. 46-1). Marriage of persons related by consanguinity or affinity prohibited. No person may marry such person's parent, grandparent, child, grandchild, sibling, parent's sibling, sibling's child, stepparent or stepchild. Any marriage within these degrees is void.
Final Steps
- Officiant's Title on Marriage License:
- Minister
- Church/Ordaining Body:
- Universal Life Church Ministries
- Address of Church:
- Minister's Home Address
Once the ceremony has taken place, there are a few final steps to make sure the wedding is legally binding.
The minister will need to fill out the officiant’s portion of the marriage license. It may ask for a name, where the minister will input their full legal name without any titles. They may have a separate blank to fill in the title, which should be entered as “minister”. If the license asks for the ordaining church, please list Universal Life Church Ministries. In a place where they ask for an address, the minister should give their home address in the case that they need to be contacted.
Take great care to fill out the marriage license with accuracy. All of the relevant parties will need to sign and fill out their respective portions. Any errors could result in an additional fee to reissue the marriage license.
Once the license is completed, it will need to be returned to the Town Clerk’s office before the end of the first week of the month following the ceremony. Again, this can range from 7 days to 38 days after the wedding so please verify this and make sure to get it turned in on time.
The minister will not be required to report the service to church headquarters, but they should alway keep a personal record of any ceremonies that they perform. This is especially the case if they are earning a fee for the service.
If the Town Clerk has any questions they will reach out to the minister after the wedding. This is why we recommend also having an official ministry credential on hand.
Finally, enjoy celebrating the joining of two people in love and have an amazing wedding!
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