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Covenant marriage is legal in only three states.

One of the most interesting marriage trends in recent years is the covenant marriage. This once-obscure legal arrangement was brought to the limelight following the election of Representative Mike Johnson as Speaker of the House in 2023; Johnson and his wife Kelly have been in a covenant marriage since 1999. 

Since then, public interest in covenant marriage has grown. But what is it? 

What is Covenant Marriage?

Covenant marriage is a form of marriage primarily used by Christian couples to affirm their marriage before God. It’s often viewed as adding spiritual reinforcement to the union, in the eyes of God, each other, and the law.

Legally speaking, covenant marriage has some unique properties. It requires couples to engage in pre-marital counseling before the wedding and limits the possibility for either member of a couple to initiate a no-fault divorce.

Under no-fault divorce rules, one or both parties in a marriage can initiate divorce without citing any sort of wrongdoing.

Covenant marriages do not allow no-fault divorce, and place stringent legal requirements for couples to part ways. In a covenant marriage, the only legal grounds for divorce are:

  • One party committed adultery.
  • One party committed a felony.
  • One party is an alcoholic or abuses drugs.
  • One party committed physical or sexual abuse.
  • One party abandoned the other for at least one year.

Additionally, under covenant marriage, the courts require proof of these offenses to initiate divorce, either in the form of photos/videos or witness testimony.

While supporters say this arrangement can make a marriage feel even more meaningful, critics point out that it can also trap people in harmful relationships with limited legal options should they wish to part ways. 

Where is Covenant Marriage Legal?

Covenant marriage is currently only legal in three states:

  • Arizona
  • Arkansas
  • Louisiana

Louisiana passed the first covenant marriage bill in 1997, and shortly thereafter Arizona and Arkansas passed bills legalizing it as well. Since 2001, covenant marriage hasn’t had any significant legal pushes in other states – until recently.

What to Know About the Texas Covenant Marriage Bill

Lawmakers in Texas are advancing a bill that would make the Lone Star state the fourth to legalize covenant marriage. Earlier this year, Texas Representative Cody Vasut introduced House Bill 931, proposing covenant marriage as an option for more than 31 million people statewide.

While the bill allows for divorce under existing state laws for reasons such as cruelty, adultery, and abandonment, couples in covenant marriages seeking a no-fault divorce would still be required to undergo counseling first.

The introduction of such legislation signals a significant cultural and political shift in Texas's approach to marriage laws. Other states, including Missouri, Oklahoma, and Tennessee, have also recently introduced covenant marriage bills – though none have been signed into law.

Why is Covenant Marriage Getting More Popular?

What's pushing lawmakers to expand covenant marriage? Some legal scholars say it's a roundabout attempt to challenge same-sex marriage protections.

Because covenant marriage has deep religious ties, it is reserved explicitly for a man and a woman. By passing laws to that effect, critics speculate that opponents of same-sex marriage are hoping to invite legal challenges that could take a covenant marriage case to the Supreme Court, where the Obergefell precedent could be put at risk.

How Common is Covenant Marriage?

Despite all the recent interest, covenant marriage is exceptionally rare. Experts say that in states where it is legal, less than one percent of marriages are covenant marriages, with some estimates going as low as 0.25%.

Nevertheless, covenant marriage remains an option for couples in a handful of states hoping to add a layer of faith-based meaning to their union.

While no couple ever plans for divorce, it does happen – and those entering into covenant marriages must understand the legal agreement they’re entering into. It’s also worth noting that many traditional couples still hold their marriage to a high standard without adding the legal hurdles that come with covenant marriage. 

12 comments

  1. Donald J Rothschild Jr's Avatar Donald J Rothschild Jr

    It just another way of controlling women, which is EXACTLY the thinking of today’s far right religious republicans. They want the US back to the 1050s.

  1. Matthew Mastrogiovanni's Avatar Matthew Mastrogiovanni

    The Xian church finds more and more ways to drive people away.

  1. Reverend Paula Copp's Avatar Reverend Paula Copp

    I don’t find excessive control romantic in any way. Keep it, and keep it to yourselves…

  1. John Condron's Avatar John Condron

    So. Once again, Republicans come up with a solution in search of a problem!

  1. Ryan Snyder's Avatar Ryan Snyder

    Navigating the storm of marriage challenges can indeed provide unique opportunities for growth and connection. It’s vital to approach these tough times with a mindset focused on collaboration and healing rather than division. Here are some thoughts based on the themes you've mentioned:

    1. Prayer as a Couple: Turning to prayer together can strengthen your spiritual bond and create a shared sense of purpose. It can serve as a safe space to express fears, hopes, and gratitude, fostering a deeper understanding of each other and grounding your relationship in faith.

    2. Creative Activities for Tough Times: Engaging in new experiences can transform challenging moments into lasting memories. Consider trying activities like cooking a new recipe together, taking a dance class, or even going on spontaneous road trips. These shared experiences can rally your partnership and reignite joy in your relationship.

    3. Rediscovering Romance: It’s easy for romance to fade amidst daily responsibilities. Schedule regular date nights, surprise each other with little tokens of affection, or reminisce about your early days together. Intentional efforts to connect romantically can help restore passion and intimacy.

    4. Mindfulness in Marriage: Practicing mindfulness allows couples to be present during difficult conversations. Techniques like active listening and expressing gratitude can enhance emotional intelligence and adaptability, enabling both partners to handle conflicts more gracefully.

    5. Understanding and Respecting Values: Regarding the topic of Covenant Marriage, it's important to reflect on what aligns with your beliefs and values as a couple. Open discussions about commitment, expectations, and shared faith can help clarify your paths forward and ensure you’re both on the same page.

    By focusing on these aspects, couples can turn challenges into growth opportunities, leading to a healthier and more resilient marriage. Remember, every relationship will have ups and downs, but navigating them together can strengthen your bond in the long run.

    1. Lori-Ann Neeb's Avatar Lori-Ann Neeb

      These are fine notions. Why limit them to any one religion?why couldn't any couple whether they practice be a faith or not apply them to the specific couple's needs? To most readers of the post, they will automatically insist they are only for their specific faith. And that is sad

  1. Lori-Ann Neeb's Avatar Lori-Ann Neeb

    I don't believe anyone needs such restrictions to prove whatever their faith may be. It sounds like xa potential threat used by a controlling partner to limit the other. Sort of along the lines of a prenup. I still like the concept of marriage I read in a sci Fi story once . Marriages were never for Life legally. They were time based . If a couple agreed to a ten year marriage for example they had a choice at the end, remarry or go their separate ways with no legal battles or drama. They could also agree to a life marriage if they wanted that too.

  1. Rev. BH's Avatar Rev. BH

    Huh? On what?

  1. James Riggle-Johnson's Avatar James Riggle-Johnson

    Coming from a same-sex marriage, I could care less if this “Covenant Marriage” is only for straight people. It sounds just controlling enough for that special type of Christian.

    1. Reverend Paula Copp's Avatar Reverend Paula Copp

      I think you mean you COULDN’T care less…

  1. Robert Gagnon's Avatar Robert Gagnon

    Marriage is always harder to get out of than into. So you have to get high and smack her or him around to get a divorce. that's pretty routine in some relationships. Where's the restrictions?

  1. John P Maher's Avatar John P Maher

    BOY o BOY DID I MISS OUT, TWICE !

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